When my fiancé and his mom demanded that I wear a red wedding dress because I have a child, I felt uncomfortable and disrespected. I wanted my wedding day to be about celebrating love and unity, not conforming to outdated or judgmental traditions. Instead of accepting their request, I had a better idea.

I chose to wear a beautiful white wedding dress that made me feel confident and radiant, regardless of my past. I wanted to embrace my journey and the love I found with my fiancé without being limited by societal expectations. My fiancé was initially taken aback but ultimately understood my decision. On the big day, I walked down the aisle in the dress that felt right for me, and it made the occasion even more special. The love and support from my fiancé, as well as my own self-assurance, shone brighter than anything else.